The gift list
Where the couple's list lives, and where the money goes.
If the couple has a list, the button on their site takes you straight to it — a department store, a honeymoon pot, a charity page. It is theirs, kept wherever they chose to keep it.
No money passes through NearlyWeds. We never take or handle a gift payment, and we do not see what you buy. Everything past that button is between you and the shop, including whether it shows the couple who sent what.
Many couples ask for nothing at all, and a site with no gifts section is a couple who meant it.