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Mail

Your wedding inbox

A real mailbox at your own address, shared with your planner.

Using it is using a mailbox, so this is mostly about the two things that are not obvious.

  1. Give the address out. It is at the top of the screen, behind the i beside the heading — your venue, your florist, your photographer.
  2. Open a thread to read it. Opening is what reading it means, so nothing has to be marked.
  3. Reply goes back from the wedding address, not from either of your personal ones. Attachments are welcome — a contract can go out the way it came in.
  4. Press Write a message — the pencil, bottom right on a phone — to start a new one.
  5. File what is dealt with. Archive keeps it and takes it out of the way; Bin is a folder, not a shredder, and Restore brings anything back.
  6. On a phone, swipe a row to the left and Archive and Bin appear behind it, so a thread can be filed without opening it.

Both of you and your planner read the same mailbox. That is the point of it — nothing important sits unread in one person's personal account while the other assumes it was answered.

A real mailbox

Every wedding gets its own email address, and the Inbox is where that post arrives — threaded, with the guest or supplier it came from named where we know them.

It is an ordinary mailbox, so there is nothing to learn: read, reply, forward, archive, bin, mark as spam. Both partners and your planner read the same one, which is the point — nothing sits unread in one person's personal account.

Questions from guests

If your site has the Questions section switched on, a guest can ask you something from it. It arrives here as ordinary post, and you are emailed to say so — because a question about parking sitting unread in a portal nobody has opened is the same as no question at all.

Replying to it goes back to them by email, like any other message.

Still need a hand?

Can’t find what you’re looking for?

Write to us and tell us what you were trying to do. We read everything ourselves and answer as quickly as we can — and if it is about a particular wedding, the address of the site helps.